Wednesday, May 6, 2009

My Bucket List

(Things I want to do before I kick the bucket!)

-Work at Sea World

-Train for and run a marathon

-Work at a coffee shop

-Go to Disney’s Animal Kingdom

-Live in a stucco house with a red, clay tile roof

-Own a convertible

-Work in an orphanage

-Get the tattoo I have wanted for 2 years

-Try out to be on Wheel of Fortune

-Take a ride on a motorcycle

-Live less than 5 blocks from an ocean

-Visit Italy

-Visit Hawaii

-Get my nose re-pierced

-Get a golden retriever and name him Murphy
-Cut my hair into a bob

-Plant a garden

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

JJ & Jayla Update

Time for an update on the munchkins!

Now that the weather is warming up JJ is starting to re-discover the spring and summertime joys of being outdoors! He LOVES to help me water the flowers, shrubs and trees around the house….he took a little bit of an interest in this last year, but now he wants to hold the hose all by himself. We also found this GREAT little beach and park area about 15 minutes from our house called Big Creek. They have this huge wooden park, walking trail, and beach spot. JJ is SO CURIOUS about the water and sand. Last year he would scream whenever he got sand on his toes, but this year he has discovered how much fun it is to play in the sand, and dip his toes in the water. One of the things I will always remember from growing up in San Diego is how much fun it was to make sand castles and play on the shore. I hope JJ will have memories of this too, even if it’s only a little Iowa beach with a mid-western glimpse of what the ocean is like. We have started traveling each weekend to tournaments with Jake’s teams, and one big thing that I notice different from last year is that JJ is interacting much more with everyone. He has fun playing with the player’s little sisters and brothers, and also has made fast friends with a couple of the coaches in the program. One thing I know he will always remember is running around with Nyla who is Coach Seay’s daughter. JJ & Nyla had so much fun on our big trip to Tennessee two weekends ago. Those two get the giggles about every 5 minutes. The best thing is that they could go all day without playing with a single toy. They just find random things to do in the gyms, or chase each other around. Every morning when we woke up in the hotel, the first thing out of JJ’s mouth was ‘Nyla come?’ Meaning, when will we get to see Nyla?!?! JJ has also really opened up to Nana Yaw and he is always wanting to know where he is. When we are at tournaments JJ has to find him on the court, or wherever he is sitting at in the gym. Then JJ will wave and wave at him, and yell his name until Nana Yaw sees him and smiles and gives a wave back. When we are at home JJ likes to ‘cook’ for Nana Yaw, especially apple pie. Nana Yaw always plays along and one night JJ had about a 15 minute conversation with Nana Yaw and it went non-stop. Jake asked Nana Yaw what they were talking about, and Nana Yaw said ‘I have no idea what he is saying!’ Sometimes neither do we!

Little Jayla is quite the chatterbox these days. She sounds like a little bird, just chitterin and chatterin all day long. Sometimes she will really get rolling and do all these crazy voice inflections like she is telling some amazing story. She can repeat quite a few words if you say them first. For ‘ni-night’ she says ‘ni-ni’, she can repeat ‘baby’ which sounds like ‘be-be’, and for ‘all done’ she says ‘nah-nuh’. When she sees JJ coming or when he comes out of his room in the morning she will squeal his name and she gets it right except for the J part she does a G sound. Jayla just loves JJ and he can make her laugh better than any of us. During JJ’s bathtime I usually put Jayla right up to the edge of the tub where she can stand and play. She squeals whenever he splashes her, and he starts this jumping game where he gets waves going and it gets Jayla laughing really hard everytime. This last month Jayla also learned how to ‘roll’ the ball back and forth, and she is now completely switched over to the sippy cup! Whoo Hoo! No more bottles! She gave me some attitude about the big switch for about 3 really hard days, but we stuck to it and now she is doing great with the sippy. Jayla has all 8 teeth almost fully in now (4 top 4 bottom). She enjoys cruising along the couch and figuring out every possible body maneuver she can do without actually having to crawl to get to a toy. Jayla is still a wonderful eater, in fact, I cannot think of one single thing that she won’t eat. I hope she keeps this up cause it makes mealtimes a lot less busy when I know she will eat whatever the rest of us are eating!

Enjoy the pictures! I had a cute video of them rolling the ball, but it wouldn't post for some reason, so I'll try again some other day.

Here we are on the big bus headed to a tournament.


Southern belle.

JJ loves to eat these soft pretzels at the games.



One of JJ's favorite coaches...Coach Clark.



Mommy says I have to drink out of this now.


JJ & Nyla being goofy on the bus.


The travelin gang...JJ, Jayla, J.J. & Nyla


On our way home from Nashville we got a close-up view of the St. Louis Arch.


JJ reading Yaw some instructions about Yaw's new space heater.


I like to put shirts on my head.


Building my sandcastle.


Checking out the sand.

Jake's Thought for the Week

Enjoy Great Moments

There is a time for everything, and a season for every
activity under heaven:
a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn
and a time to dance.
Eccl. 3:1,4

He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has
also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom
what God has done from beginning to end.
I know that there is nothing better for men than to be
happy and do good while they live. That everyone
may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all his
toil—this is the gift of God.
Eccl. 3:11-13

I believe there are times when God looks down on us and says to himself, “Do I really have to remind all of these people to take a step back and enjoy the great moments.” I know God has to say that about me quite often as I am running from place to place without ever taking a step back to look at all the great moments I am missing.

On Friday my wife called me and asked if I had read her blog for the day. Of course my answer was that I had not gotten to it yet but would check it out as soon as I had a moment. She ended our conversation by saying that I would really like it so as soon as I hung up the phone I went to her blog and saw the following poem and pictures:

Scroll down to Friday's post to see the poem & pictures

As I read the poem and examined the photos I realized that my wife caught all of these pictures without me ever knowing. Not only did I not know she took the picture but I never took a step back to enjoy these various moments of life. There are so many great moments that we all miss everyday because we are worried about what tomorrow will have in store or what we may be able to accomplish next week. However, there are times when God yells to us loudly to take a step back and enjoy the great moments of life.

Go Attack,
Jake Sullivan

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Article About Jake's Kingdom Hoops in DM Register

Ex-Cyclone Sullivan launches his own hoops dream
By Sean Keeler, May 2, 2009

Jake Sullivan answers the phone in Lawrence, Kan., a stone's throw from the Free State Brewing Company on Massachusetts Avenue. Last weekend, it was Milwaukee. The weekend before that was Nashville. Or was it Arkansas?"It has been the most challenging thing I've done since playing," the former Iowa State basketball star says, barely pausing to take a breath. No time. "But it's been kind of fun."You multi-task. Sullivan spins plates on his nose while riding a unicycle through a giant ring of flame. His calendar would give a BlackBerry an ulcer. As if life on the road coaching and supervising his All-Iowa Attack AAU program, an army of nearly 300 players, wasn't enough wheel for the hamster, now comes word that he's launching his own basketball academy. In Ghana.

"It's given me a real direction," says Sullivan, whose foundation, Kingdom Hoops, also opened an indoor sports complex in Ankeny earlier this year. "It's really not that much different than playing and working out and training every day. It's been a lot of work. Fortunately, I have a lot of really good people around me, so it's making it a lot easier."Starting with his wife, Janel, who needs a GPS device to keep up with her husband some days. The academy was her brainchild, really. Last fall, Janel was gathering up the Sullivans' two young children, J.J. and Jayla, in front of a television that happened to be tuned to ESPN. Before long, a story popped up about the Right to Dream Foundation, which runs an academy in Ghana that educates young soccer players from the poorest communities in the country, eventually funneling them into private schools in the United States and the United Kingdom.

At first, it was just background noise in the room. But the more Janel saw, the more fascinated she was by the concept. At the time, the Sullivans had been talking about adopting a child from Africa. Knowing Jake's love of kids and basketball, she figured: Why stop at one? Why not try to better the lives of dozens?"And I thought, 'Ooh, Jake would love to get involved with this,' " Janel says. "It was right up his alley."So when Jake came home, she explained the piece, the images of the children playing to escape the poverty in which they were raised. Jake beamed. He'd been looking for a new focus, a new rainbow to chase. He contacted Right to Dream shortly thereafter to arrange a meeting.

"I was sitting around (thinking), 'We've got this good AAU program going. What's next?' And all of a sudden, two (weeks) after sitting in Minnesota thinking that, all this stuff started happening," Jake says. "I was reading a book and it said, 'You know you're doing God's work when you're doing something bigger than you.' "This qualifies. The goal is to raise $250,000 by early September. Jake estimates that room, board, tuition, staff — never mind building new basketball courts from scratch — will cost at least $10,000 per student, whose age will range between 8 and 14 years old.

"I'd love to have someone write me a check," Sullivan says, chuckling. "It would just make it so much easier."In a perfect world — and this economic climate is anything but — they want to be stringing up nets by New Year's Day. Jake already has a site in mind, having visited Right to Dream's facility in Ghana this past February. What he found were tiny clay houses with straw roofs, wild chickens, and potholes the size of coffee tables."The thing that caught me off-guard the most was the kids have nothing compared to the westernized American standard," he says grimly. "There's no toys. They're on the side of the road, working in the family market, trying to make a dollar to eat."

In Ghana, education costs money, and 80 percent of the country's population lives on less than a dollar per day. But it wasn't the statistics that stayed in Sullivan's head. It was the people. At one point during his visit, Jake found himself playing a pickup game against a lanky teenager named Nana Yaw Aka. The two became fast friends. Sullivan left Nana Yaw his business card and told him if he ever wanted to see Iowa, give him a call."And the kid called right when Jake arrived at the airport," says Todd Miller, a longtime friend and Kingdom Hoops' director of events.

In short order, Nana Yaw completed the necessary paperwork and flew to live with the Sullivans in March. "He's just one of those guys," Miller says of Jake, "(for whom) nothing is ever impossible.""I know he has the heart to pull it off, and that's the most important prerequisite," offers Tom Vernon, the Manchester United scout who founded the Right to Dream academy. "The big issue is finance, as Jake and Kingdom Hoops can't finance it alone."

Sullivan personally spends 12-15 hours a week writing letters and making calls on behalf of the project. They've taken their pitch to churches, companies, and professional athletes. They're still waiting to hear back from most."I think we're moving in the right direction," Jake says. "It's just a matter of getting some people behind it and understanding it. And you have to try to paint the vision to the people who haven't been there. Once you've been there - yeah, it's a no-brainer deal."

Another friend and Kingdom Hoops staffer, Julian Seay, is slated to head to Africa in August. Sullivan wants to try and cram in one more visit before Christmas. Schedule permitting."One thing I've learned, being married to Jake, is to be really flexible and up for anything," Janel says. Then she laughs. "I drink a lot of coffee."
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Special to the register Former Iowa State player Jake Sullivan watches a youth basketball game during a trip to Ghana in February. Sullivan is hoping to raise $250,000 by September to start a basketball academy in the poor African country.

Friday, May 1, 2009

Watchin' You

There are little eyes upon you,
And they're watching night and day.
There are little ears that quickly
Take in every word you say.
There are little hands all eager
To do anything you do;
And a little boy who's dreaming
Of the day he'll be like you.
You're the little fellow’s idol
You're the wisest of the wise,
In his little mind about you
No suspicions ever rise;
He believes in you devoutly,
Holds that all you say and do,
He will say and do in your way
When he's all grown up like you.
There's a wide eyed little fellow
Who believes you're always right;
And his ears are always open,
And he watches day and night.
You are setting an example
Every day in all you do;
For the little boy who's waiting
To grow up to be like you.